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Special Post: When the Season Feels Heavy - A Quiet Chaplain Reflection on Seasonal Depression

 


Some seasons don’t just change the weather. They change us.

The light fades earlier. Mornings feel darker. And for some, winter doesn’t feel cozy—it feels heavy. If you experience seasonal depression (often called SAD), you’re not weak, lazy, or “bad at faith.” You’re human—living in a body and nervous system that are affected by light, rhythm, and stress.

This isn’t a substitute for professional care. It’s a quiet companion.

What It Can Feel Like

Seasonal depression can show up as:

  • low mood or numbness
  • fatigue that doesn’t match your effort
  • withdrawal from people
  • changes in sleep and appetite
  • difficulty focusing
  • loss of motivation or joy

And it can be invisible—looking “fine” while feeling dim inside.

A Gentle Word for People of Faith

Depression is not a moral failure. Struggling doesn’t mean God is far.

Scripture is full of faithful people who felt overwhelmed and honest about it. Lament isn’t a lack of faith—it’s refusing to pretend.

Sometimes the bravest prayer is one sentence:

“God, I’m here. Please hold me.”

The Quiet Way Through a Heavy Season

If this is a low season, the goal doesn’t have to be “feel amazing.” A better goal is often:

Stabilize. Simplify. Stay connected.

Try a few small practices—small enough for low-capacity days:

  • Light: get outside in the morning for 5–10 minutes, or sit near a window. (Some people benefit from light therapy—worth discussing with a professional.)
  • Movement: keep it gentle and simple—short walk, stretching, one song in the kitchen.
  • Lower the bar: choose a “minimum viable day” (eat something nourishing, wash your face, one small task).
  • Tell one safe person: depression grows in isolation. A simple text counts: “This week has been hard—can you check in?”
  • Consider support: therapy/medical care can be part of faithful stewardship, not failure.

If you feel unsafe or have thoughts of self-harm, please reach out immediately to someone local you trust or contact emergency services. You don’t have to carry that alone.

A One-Sentence Prayer for Dark Days

When longer prayers feel impossible, repeat a small return:

  • “Jesus, be near.”
  • “Give me light for the next step.”
  • “Hold me when I can’t hold myself.”

Reflection

  1. What does seasonal heaviness look like in me—fatigue, irritability, numbness, withdrawal?
  2. What helps even a little—light, movement, routine, connection, counseling?
  3. What is one small practice I can commit to this week?
  4. Who is one safe person I can tell the truth to?


A Quiet Prayer

God of steady presence,

meet me gently in this darker season.

Help me do the next small thing.

Give me wisdom to seek support,

and grace that holds when I feel thin.

Amen.


With you in the quiet,

– The Quiet Chaplain


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